31 questions to ask your partner to bond with them on a deeper level

Whether you are dating long distance, quarantined in different houses, on a long road trip, or simply want some conversation starters to get to know your significant other better, these are for you.

  1. If you could travel back in time or forward in time, what time period would you choose? What if you had to stay there forever?
  2. If you could design the perfect house for yourself, what would it look like? What specific rooms or features would it include?
  3. Describe your most embarrassing moment from middle school.
  4. Describe who you were in high school. What groups did you hang out with? Anything (music, club, activity) that you were intensely interested in?
  5. If you could choose a TV show setting to live in, what would it be?
  6. If you were involved in a band, what role would you have? Guitarist? Tambourine player? Manager?
  7. Do you see pets in your future? What breeds? Any names you have in mind?
  8. How would you describe your interior design style? Are you more modern, rustic, or traditional?
  9. What’s your opinion on mediums, psychics, and card readings?
  10. If you had the choice to go (back) to college and get a/another degree, what would you study?
  11. Where does your dream road trip take you? What stops would you make along the way?
  12. Do you prefer planning details out or being spontaneous while taking a trip?
  13. Do you hold onto regrets? Any that you’re willing to share?
  14. Do you believe the phrase: too much of a good thing?
  15. Are you glass half empty or half full person?
  16. If you were at home quarantined for a month, what would you do to keep busy?
  17. How do you want the world to remember you?
  18. What has been your favorite job you’ve held? What about your least favorite?
  19. What is your first memory that you can recall?
  20. What are your deal-breakers in relationships or friendships?
  21. What relationship advice would you give a couple starting out?
  22. What would you tell your younger self if you had the chance?
  23. If you could have a talking animal sidekick, what animal would it be?
  24. How would you describe love?
  25. Do you have a secret dream of something you’d love to do/achieve?
  26. Are you a strong communicator?
  27. What are your thoughts on starting a family?
  28. What are you doing in your daily life that’s working for you? What’s not working for you?
  29. What is it that you want most in life?
  30. Think of the person you were 5 years ago. How have you changed?
  31. If you could read only three books for the rest of your life, what would they be?

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